It's been brought to my attention that I come across as "grumpy" or that I seem "upset" or "mad" a lot. This is usually associated with the look on my face while I'm pondering a problem or working on a task. Actually this look I have is the result of something called "thinking".
Evidently it is unusual for someone to have such a look while thinking - though I suspect it may be the wide spread drought of thought that our culture seems to be experiencing these days. I'm just saying. . .
Seriously though (or maybe I should say "not so seriously at all though) I have much to be thankful for, grateful for - yes even happy for and I'm dismayed that my "countenance" doesn't reflect the true joy that I have in my heart, my soul and in my life. I will work on this and try to not have such a sour puss while doing so.
One of my fondest memories of my Dad was that he would often whistle while he worked. Given that he was not a very good whistler may have been that he to was aware that he could come across as a bit of a grump (there is a Scottish heritage to maintain after all) so he was taking a proactive step to make sure that he wasn't taken the wrong way.
So - if you see me and I seem out of sorts, it's very likely that I'm just focused on solving the task at hand - while smiling inside. Just so you know :)
I have to say...this trait has been passed down another generation! I've been accused of being in a bad mood, mad, a "bitch", myself so I understand where you're coming from.
Posted by: Sarah | December 20, 2008 at 10:42 PM